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Ayurveda

So I went on a retreat last month to Wolfe Island near Kingston.  It was a women’s retreat in honour of Mother’s Day and the topic for the weekend was Ayurveda.

Ayurveda is a Sanskrit word and it has two roots: ayur, meaning life, and veda, meaning knowledge.  Ayurveda is about balance, relatedness, lifelong learning and daily self care.

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I am always up for learning new things, especially about living a more fun, healthy, and connected life, so I was excited for my three days of rejuvenation, rest, learning and spending time with an awesome group of people.

According to Ayurveda practices, there are three pillars of health:

  1. Nourishment (Ahara) – Food, Air, Company, Essence/ Spirit
  2. Sleep (Nidra)
  3. Management of Vital energy.

The foundation is that when we feel good, we look good (no matter what our age).  Feeling good requires a commitment to what we take in (in the form of food, company, sounds, sites, and self care).

The Dinacharya is a compilation of daily rituals that promote balance and vitality.

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Here are some of the rituals I learned about and wanted to share:

Morning Routine:

  • Wake up at 6AM (with or before the sun)
  • Drink a glass of warm water (with lemon) upon waking – it hydrates the system, turns on the digestive system and is cleansing before you start filling your body with the day’s food.
  • Gentle exercise – Go for a walk, stretch, do some yoga to get the blood flowing and joints moving.
  • Breakfast
  • Gargle warm water + sea salt – at the back of your throat
  • Brush your teeth
  • Eyes – pool water to rinse the eyes (open and close your eyes in the water)
  • Shower
  • Massage – with a natural based oil (i.e. coconut oil, raw sesame oil (not toasted), or almond oil) give your hands, arms, face and feet a gentle massage.  Long strokes for the long bones and circles for the joints.
  • Sweat – do some more vigourous exercise or take a sauna (just a little bit of sweat is healthy daily (especially in your arm pits and low back).
  • Ears – put a little pit of the natural oils in your ears.

Mid-day Routine

  • Make lunch the largest meal
    • Try a romantic meal with yourself now and then – relate to the food (what it looks like, where it came from, the texture)
    • Calm environment
    • Company is enjoyable
  • Rest a little bit after lunch
    • Lie on your left side for a few minutes to promote digestion

Evening Routine

  • Supper – Light and early
  • Rest on Left Side after eating for a few minutes
  • Go for an evening walk
  • Sleep “hygiene”/ pre-bed routine
    • build in some rituals that you do before bed to prepare you for sleep.
    • Some ideas are: light some candles, sip a cup of herbal tea for a few minutes alone, give yourself a foot massage, take a shower.  What ever works for you.
  • Be in bed by 10pm.

I am sure you are thinking, I do not have time to do all of these things.  Things move fast and I have a million things I want to do.  It is harder now with how fast things move.  The instructor reminded us that we did not need to do everything, but just to pick a few rituals that we can do and carve out a little time for such self-care.  It is also helpful to know them in the back of your head – maybe they will un-expectantly influence a decision or guide you on which “way” to lie on the couch (i.e. left after a meal).

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What Do I want to Remember? By Me

 

Starting here, what do I want to remember?

  • The glimmering eyes of people I love or have loved;
  • The fresh, wet nourishing smell of walking through the forest, the morning after it rains
  • Cuddling with my little toddlers when they wake up and also right before they go to bed;
  • Family adventures around the city;
  • Playing ukulele and chilling with the kids;
  • Laughing and connecting with friends I love;
  • Romantic nights out;
  • Road trips and singing in the car!
  • Swimming in lakes and feeling the nutrient rich water flow through my hair;
  • The sun shining on my face;
  • Going exploring;
  • Bike rides with nothing on my back;
  • Hearing live music;
  • The smell of wood burning and camp fires;
  • Brunch!
  • Sitting with a latte at a cute café and people watching; and
  • All the people that have brightened my world!

This is my list, what is yours???!!!!

Some Tips for Everyday Mindfulness, Madeline Klyne

  • When you first wake up in the morning, before you get out of bed, bring your attention to your breathing. Observe five mindful breaths.
  • Notice changes in your posture. Be aware of how your body and mind feel when you move from lying down to sitting, to standing, to walking. Notice each time you make a transition from one posture to the next.

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